Push Thru Baby…Push Thru…

Self love is the gateway to understanding and valuing your worth in the creative world. The biggest problems creatives encounter tend to be depression and self hate. The sheer amount of times you hear “I am my own worst critic” should tell you it is the motto of the creative community. Enduring the hate of

The wisdom, maturity, and knowledge of 32

For as long as I can remember I’ve been told, in not so subtle ways, that women have to mature faster than men. Women need to mature faster to be able to care for and nurture children, keep up a household, and make sure their man is supported. So from the young ages, they were

Self Awareness and Relationships

Let me preface this by saying I’m not talking about my relationship, but definitely speaking on previous ones. I definitely had a pattern of dating men that were emotionally damaged or completely unavailable. Very much used to the types of women that were emotionally abusive, physically abusive and the like. I never understood this cycle

My apologies

I was very wrapped up in my birthday plans and things got crazy with work, I faltered with my posting. I have a post that will be dropping tomorrow and working on another for Friday. Be on the look out for new Dymond Merch dropping soon a new button and sticker design.

Happy Birthday Diva!

With another year of life under my belt, I like to take time to reflect on how far I’ve come, where I’m going, and settling into where I am. I took a lot of big steps this past year, from publishing my second book to completely changing occupation industries. All of the things I’ve done

Sex you want but don’t talk about

For fear of sounding weird or for fear of rejection, people are limited in their sexual experience because of what they want to bring to the bedroom. What I want to talk about in this entry are a few things for people to spice things up and step outside this box of inhibitions. Maybe you’ve

Advice we should listen to…

Eat more fruits and vegetables – They cleanse your system, plus they are good for the overall health of your body. Besides, they taste yummy! Drink water – It flushes toxins out of your kidneys and keeps your body healthy and hydrated. Get plenty of fiber – what? fiber, that’s for old people. While that

Do you love me? or do you want to fuck me?

Calling big women BBW’s perpetuates the fetish that so many seek to escape from. Stop calling me something I can find in a porn category and think that it is a compliment to my person. It sends up a huge red flag that you don’t respect me as a person and that you covet me

Learn to Break Up not Break Down

One of the hardest things to do in a relationship is to break-up. Letting a toxic relationship control your life is hard, but letting go of a comfort zone no matter how toxic is harder. Obviously, no break up is the same, but there are signs that you should be aware of that one may

When is Cheating…Cheating?

I remember back in the day when we were kids, well at least when I was a kid, those elementary school and middle school relationships, where if you even talked to someone that wasn’t you boyfriend or girlfriend everyone on the playground knew about it by recess. Guess who was in trouble and then dubbed